Do you ever feel like you are the most disposable friend in the friend group? 2 of my friends are BESTIES with each other, and the other just kinda vents to me and shows her art to me without really letting me exist
Isn't that called being a third wheel? Anyway, I'm sure if you think about it, many anime MCs have a bestie and then a mutual bestie that's less important so that's kind of how it is sometimes I guess (unless they're actually just totally ignoring you)
I was going to say 3rd wheel, but I have 4 friends
No, you shouldn't just ditch friends that aren't being absolutely perfect to you. That's not a good attitude and you'll end up having no friends. You wouldn't want to be friends with someone who left you every time you had a bad day or weren't being the best, would you? Unless they're actually taking advantage of you or being toxic, but that's when they really don't care about you and purposely want you to feel bad
Showing your weakness and need won't help a lot to grant you your wish for more respect. From endless personal experience and stories, show your independence and lack of/no neediness, really and not just an act, then you will get your wish for more respect granted.
Do you ever feel like you are the most disposable friend in the friend group? 2 of my friends are BESTIES with each other, and the other just kinda vents to me and shows her art to me without really letting me exist
Isn't that called being a third wheel? Anyway, I'm sure if you think about it, many anime MCs have a bestie and then a mutual bestie that's less important so that's kind of how it is sometimes I guess (unless they're actually just totally ignoring you)
I was going to say 3rd wheel, but I have 4 friends
No, you shouldn't just ditch friends that aren't being absolutely perfect to you. That's not a good attitude and you'll end up having no friends. You wouldn't want to be friends with someone who left you every time you had a bad day or weren't being the best, would you? Unless they're actually taking advantage of you or being toxic, but that's when they really don't care about you and purposely want you to feel bad
You are going too far away from what I'm trying to convey, Row chan...
No, you shouldn't just ditch friends that aren't being absolutely perfect to you. That's not a good attitude and you'll end up having no friends. You wouldn't want to be friends with someone who left you every time you had a bad day or weren't being the best, would you? Unless they're actually taking advantage of you or being toxic, but that's when they really don't care about you and purposely want you to feel bad
Exactly! Friends are precious and are people too. They also might need you as much as you need them! Friends are rude or harsh to each other all the time, but what makes them friends is that they apologize, adapt and grow
No, you shouldn't just ditch friends that aren't being absolutely perfect to you. That's not a good attitude and you'll end up having no friends. You wouldn't want to be friends with someone who left you every time you had a bad day or weren't being the best, would you? Unless they're actually taking advantage of you or being toxic, but that's when they really don't care about you and purposely want you to feel bad
You are going too far away from what I'm trying to convey, Row chan...
Are you sure? Maybe you aren't properly conveying what you mean
Isn't that called being a third wheel? Anyway, I'm sure if you think about it, many anime MCs have a bestie and then a mutual bestie that's less important so that's kind of how it is sometimes I guess (unless they're actually just totally ignoring you)
I was going to say 3rd wheel, but I have 4 friends
Fourth wheel?
"WHAT KIND OF CAR HAS 4 WHEELS?!?" -Katie the Catsitter, the Purrfect Plan
In my experience, people who take advantage of you by getting you to do things for you because they know you're nice and then are mean are bad friends And also people who guilt you into doing things
In my experience, people who take advantage of you by getting you to do things for you because they know you're nice and then are mean are bad friends And also people who guilt you into doing things
Yes. Manipulation and cruelty make a bad friend. But common problems like being ignored or pressuring someone are things that they learn not to do, but can still be your friend.
I chose to step away from this (no exaggeration) black hole. I call it that because it's depressing to no end if you step in and give in to it. The option is... yeah good guessing... choosing loneliness, BUT not in your case.
"Stepping away" implies that you quit being friends with them, which is pretty close to ditching (if you quit being friends with them it's ditching them)
Guys! Showing weakness and excessive needing ruins, doesn't construct... Build a solid Base with others then act like good friends all you want.
Well, some people might show weakness, but people often take advantage of people who are trying to help them, not the other way around (trying to get them to help them)
In my experience, people who take advantage of you by getting you to do things for you because they know you're nice and then are mean are bad friends And also people who guilt you into doing things
Yes. Manipulation and cruelty make a bad friend. But common problems like being ignored or pressuring someone are things that they learn not to do, but can still be your friend.
Yeah, they might not realize they're not paying attention to you, it could be an accidental habit. People who continuously do it intentionally are the bad ones
In my experience, people who take advantage of you by getting you to do things for you because they know you're nice and then are mean are bad friends And also people who guilt you into doing things
Yes. Manipulation and cruelty make a bad friend. But common problems like being ignored or pressuring someone are things that they learn not to do, but can still be your friend.
Yeah, they might not realize they're not paying attention to you, it could be an accidental habit. People who continuously do it intentionally are the bad ones
Exactly! Also the Wi-Fi here sucks so I might take a moment to respond to stuff
I do actually need to hang out with them though. Most of the time, they boost my self esteem and help me feel happier and healthier.
This Contradicts with what you have said earlier as being the MOST DISPOSABLE... The latter shows absolutely bad people to stick to, which may even lead to more serious problems in the future... I guess your message wasn't conveyed properly.
Sorry guys, I'm now charging my punches so I might not punch for a while and it's because one girl from Ukraine or Russia probably that I don't know but a friend send me a video of her... beating up... a... doggy and posts it on TikTok!!!??? I'm FURIOUS more then EVER, she killed that doggy and it's 2 months since the doggys death and now that little b**** has a new doggy at least that's what my friend said. Of course I'm sad too but saddnest won't help me here.
And also people who guilt you into doing things